{"id":485,"date":"2023-11-24T00:55:50","date_gmt":"2023-11-24T00:55:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/guruofthebeauty.com\/relationship\/5300-what-is-he-thinking-7-possibilities-when-youre-kissing\/"},"modified":"2023-11-24T00:55:50","modified_gmt":"2023-11-24T00:55:50","slug":"what-is-he-thinking-7-possibilities-when-youre-kissing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/popbriefly.com\/?p=485","title":{"rendered":"What Is He Thinking: 7 Possibilities When You\u2019re Kissing"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever wondered what goes through your guy\u2019s mind when you\u2019re passionately kissing? Perhaps you\u2019re too occupied with enjoying the experience to give it much thought, but it is worth pondering. Fortunately for you, we\u2019re here to give you the inside scoop on what might be running through his head during your makeout sessions.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

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He\u2019s thinking about how amazing you are<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s pretty obvious that if he\u2019s playing tonsil hockey with you, he\u2019s into you. So there\u2019s a pretty good chance he realizes he\u2019s really fortunate to have found a girl as beautiful, funny, and clever as you. In fact, if he weren\u2019t so occupied at the moment, he would no doubt love to sit back and admire your beauty. But when it comes down to it, you really shouldn\u2019t spend too much time worrying over whether he likes you or not, because if that weren\u2019t the case, he\u2019d be with another woman right now. Just embrace the moment (and while you\u2019re at it, embrace him!) and appreciate what you have.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

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He\u2019s wondering if you like how he kisses<\/h2>\n

As worried as you might be about whether he thinks you\u2019re a good kisser, you can be certain that he\u2019s hoping you\u2019re just as turned on. Men have egos that need to be massaged, after all. They feel just as self-conscious and even insecure during moments of intimacy. He knows he\u2019s got a good thing going, and the last thing he wants is for you to find his kissing techniques to be boring and uninspired.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

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He\u2019s trying to gauge how far you\u2019re willing to go<\/h2>\n

Making out with him is a sure sign that you\u2019re attracted to him. With this knowledge, he\u2019s no doubt wondering what the boundaries are. To be clear, you get to decide where to take this, as he is not entitled to anything. If you feel comfortable signaling to him that you\u2019re down for some \u201cextracurricular\u201d activities, go for it. On the other hand, if you\u2019re content with the act of French kissing and nothing beyond that, he should be too.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

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He\u2019s wrapping his head around what this all means<\/h2>\n

The act of kissing doesn\u2019t automatically solidify you as a couple. If you haven\u2019t had any discussions about your relationship, he is likely wondering where things stand now that you\u2019ve shared a kiss. Is this the first step towards a long-term romantic partnership? Or was this just one of those \u201cit feels good, but it\u2019s nothing more than a fling\u201d type of thing? There\u2019s no reason to play games and leave him confused; let him know exactly how you feel and do so sooner rather than later.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

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He\u2019s impressed with your kissing abilities<\/h2>\n

If he\u2019s dazzled by how talented you are with your tongue, he\u2019s going to feel like he\u2019s totally lucked out! And then he\u2019s going to be curious to know how exactly you got so good at it! Don\u2019t be offended if he asks how many guys you\u2019ve kissed in the past. Take it as a compliment, as it means he\u2019s genuinely impressed, and it probably takes a lot to blow his mind!<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

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He\u2019s distracted by his surroundings<\/h2>\n

The most ideal situation would be if his mind is completely on you and the kissing. But if you\u2019ve got a roommate and their friends goofing off loudly in the living room, or you\u2019ve still got the TV on, your guy\u2019s mind might stray towards those things. It doesn\u2019t mean he\u2019s any less interested in you, but it does make it harder for him to concentrate on the act.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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He isn\u2019t thinking of anything but the kiss itself<\/h2>\n

Don\u2019t take this to be a negative. The fact that he isn\u2019t overthinking anything can be a virtue. He\u2019s enjoying the experience and the time he\u2019s spending with you. Any thoughts that happen to pop into his head vanish right away. The way he sees it, why allow his mind to wander on random thoughts when he\u2019s with the girl of his dreams?\u00a0<\/p>\n

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Ultimately, how much does it really matter what is going on in his head? Whatever happens with him isn\u2019t entirely in your control anyway. If you\u2019re feeling relaxed and are living in the moment, you shouldn\u2019t have any regrets. As Dorris Day once sang, \u201cQue sera sera, whatever will be will be.\u201d<\/p>\n

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